Finding my Path, Finding my Shine
This came from an Inhale, Exhale writing excercise (Martha Beck, Write Into Light) and was where I ended up after writing what came up when I asked the question, “The [...]
What I Said to the Dalai Lama
Well, not yet! But much to my delight, my May trip to Dharamsala with Street School Journeys inclides the possibility of meeting him if he is in residence and it [...]
Leading isn’t Helping, Love isn’t Fixing
"Please, don't try to fix me. I am not broken. I have not asked for your solutions." The title for an excerpt that connected ...and a paragraph became a blog [...]
So, Just You ? On Your Own ?
So, Just You ? On your own ? Awkward pause with confused look....Where is your Husband ? These were the constant questions as I talked about and then did my [...]
Finding Your Value – Claiming Your Extraordinary
You may have noticed but one of my battles has been with connecting to my value. It took me all of 44 years to discover that the feeling of dread [...]
Dare to Stand Out – Own Your Identity
You can only change those things that you are aware of. Are you aware of who you are ? What is your identity ? How is it created ? Take [...]
Things I Wish I had Known Ten Years Ago (or is it 15 ?)
I have to be kind to myself before I can be kind to anyone else. The alternative on this one is - how I speak to myself and what I expect [...]
When You Don’t Get Chosen – What Now ?
You may or may not have read about my saga with The Woman’s Diving Hall of Fame, an ostensibly legitimate organisation that promotes woman in diving but in my experience [...]
Finding your Dare to Live Your Dream
Did you know ? The Woman’s Diving Hall of Fame rejected my application to become a member….I was stunned! Read more here. This is the week I speak at TEDxSoweto [...]
When You Start Believing the World – Read This! Immediately!
It doesn’t matter if someone else things you are useless or inadequate. Really, it doesn’t! What matters is what you think! You probably haven’t been taught to override someone else’s [...]