What if Thoughts were Choices too ?
Yes, thoughts just appear – but what if that sudden, automatic appearance is just a habit ? Something you created without knowing because you never knew you had a choice [...]
Using ‘Here’ to Create a New ‘There’
One of the responses I hear the most is “but I don’t know what it is I want”. Which makes creating a clear, solid dream of ‘there’ difficult. I have [...]
Dreams, Dreaming and Reality
I have been putting together my talk for TEDxSoweto (02 November, can’t wait) and some interesting things have come up for me. Dreams are not about world firsts, they are [...]
Why YOU are Important!
This is not about you being unique (you are). It is about how you relate to yourself and how that matters. It is hard to see and hear the way [...]
Find Your Dare – Create Anything
This is the title of my soon to be presented TEDxSoweto talk and it inspired me so much I took the structure and turned it into an essay. Something that [...]
Finding Ways to Let the Past Stay in the Past
This started as a quick reminder on my Facebook page. “It is fun and feels natural and normal to talk about what happened and why. But by bringing the past [...]
Why you Can’t be Given Authority or Leadership aka, Finding that Missing x-Factor
I was tasked with managing a new resource at work! This is an exciting event because I get to share my expertise and at the same time, create space for [...]
What Would It Take to Love The Life/Job You Have ?
We spend so much time waiting for a specific event to happen, then we will be happy, then things will be fine and you will relax. So, has that happened [...]
Things I Refuse to Accept
I refuse to accept…that I am not enough and so I can’t! I refuse to accept…that I need to an organisation or body or person, no matter how prestigious or [...]
Wanna Give Up ? All Hope Gone ?
Some days hope is hard to find. Yes! I am living one of those days. I don’t enjoy this part of the process and sometimes I wonder if it really [...]