How to Get Unstuck
I ask myself this question all the time. When I find myself trapped by life, my choices and my dreams I know I have to start to look at the [...]
What Fear do You need to Face ?
Living with Dare is about pushing your limits and that means finding your fear and saying, Howdy! (or in South Africa, Howzit). Which is part of the problem, we don’t [...]
There is no such thing as an Impossible Problem!
I love impossible problems, because they aren’t! There is no such thing as an impossible problem – what you actually have is a problem that current thinking can not solve. [...]
How to get the Support you Need!
Looking for support before you get started with making that dream come true ? Aren’t we all. Which is where the problem comes in. When we believe that who we [...]
Madiba Lived with Dare, Why Not You? aka Using Madiba’s 67 minutes to create the change you want to see in the world
What if Change has to Start with Who you Are ? “One of the things I learned when I was negotiating was that until I changed myself, I could not [...]
How You Talk To Yourself Counts – What Words Are You Using ?
We are so used to our thoughts that we don’t even notice them, even though they drive all our choices. What I love about thoughts is that they aren’t choices. [...]
The First Rule of Owning your Life – You Can’t Create a Negative!
I sometimes forget that the things that are basics for me might not be for you and this is one of those fundamental pieces of wisdom that you need if [...]
Why You Need to Ignore Your Emotions
Well maybe ignore isn’t the right word, perhaps question is better. Why ? Because emotions are habits – even worse emotion and the reactions they generate are unconscious habits that [...]
Are you Reacting or Acting ? Why it makes a difference!
Is there one thing that could fundamentally change your experience of the world ? Probably not, but shifting from reaction to action would be a close contender. Reactions are automatic, [...]
Have you Given Up ?
I am not a saint, unless you think of a saint as a sinner who keeps on trying. Nelson Mandela Driving to work, the winter super moon hanging in a [...]