Finding your Dare to Live Your Dream
Did you know ? The Woman’s Diving Hall of Fame rejected my application to become a member….I was stunned! Read more here. This is the week I speak at TEDxSoweto [...]
What if Thoughts were Choices too ?
Yes, thoughts just appear – but what if that sudden, automatic appearance is just a habit ? Something you created without knowing because you never knew you had a choice [...]
Using ‘Here’ to Create a New ‘There’
One of the responses I hear the most is “but I don’t know what it is I want”. Which makes creating a clear, solid dream of ‘there’ difficult. I have [...]
Fighting Fear – To Win!
My closest friend is going for an op. It isn’t a biggie, in fact it is something she wanted to do, just not now. With the suddenness came the fear. [...]
Dreams, Dreaming and Reality
I have been putting together my talk for TEDxSoweto (02 November, can’t wait) and some interesting things have come up for me. Dreams are not about world firsts, they are [...]
Why YOU are Important!
This is not about you being unique (you are). It is about how you relate to yourself and how that matters. It is hard to see and hear the way [...]
When You Start Believing the World – Read This! Immediately!
It doesn’t matter if someone else things you are useless or inadequate. Really, it doesn’t! What matters is what you think! You probably haven’t been taught to override someone else’s [...]
Find Your Dare – Create Anything
This is the title of my soon to be presented TEDxSoweto talk and it inspired me so much I took the structure and turned it into an essay. Something that [...]
Before you can live a life you love have to…
Let go of being normal. Let go of fitting in. Accept your essential weirdness and accept that doing something new and different takes you outside of the tribe. Tribes hate [...]
Finding Ways to Let the Past Stay in the Past
This started as a quick reminder on my Facebook page. “It is fun and feels natural and normal to talk about what happened and why. But by bringing the past [...]